One of my favorite ways to interact with the children who come through the library is to ask them about their clothing. Most of the time, children will have a design on their outfit or a fun accessory. I love asking children why they wore this or that, and I can generally tell when a child has dressed themselves.
You might think that having a child dress themselves is not important or significant. However, allowing a toddler or young child to pick outfits and clothing for themselves contributes to many positive developmental skills.
Independence: Picking one’s clothing can be one of the first independent decisions a child makes. It’s important to give young children, even toddlers, easy responsibilities that can directly affect their experiences. It teaches them to rely on themselves and understand basic causes and effects. For example, if they wear a sweater and it’s too hot, they might choose a lighter option next time. Always discuss their choices with them, and ask if a better choice is possible or available.
Confidence: In today’s world, judgement is easy to give. It’s important for children to learn and build confidence. An easy way to do this is to create outfits and wear them. They build their confidence from the fact that their grown-ups are giving them this responsibility and are interested in what they decide. Children will feel trusted and encouraged to take on this “adult” task.
Creativity: The outfits and fashion choices children decide on are inspiring. Their wardrobes are their canvases. Picking their outfits is their way to explore their likes, dislikes, and creativity. Letting your child pick their clothes and accessories definitely influences their creativity and imagination. Who else would match cowboy boots with a hot pink cape? It’s fashion!
Motor Skills: Finally, children as young as 2 can start dressing themselves. During this time, a child’s gross and fine motor skills are being developed and toned. Physically putting on shirts and pants can strengthen muscles, flexibility, and coordination. Hand dexterity is also exercised: buttons and zippers can be tricky for tiny fingers and hands. Putting on clothes is another way children can strengthen their bodies and minds.
It might not seem like an important feature in a child’s development. Especially when you are rushing to get to pre-school and/or work, having your child pick their clothes and dress themselves can be tedious. However, the benefits are important to note, and you can pick an appropriate time for your child to practice. Maybe it’s too hectic on the weekdays, but the weekends can give you more time. Or maybe you allow your child to dress themselves on special occasions and events! Whatever time works best for you, having your child dress themselves is beneficial and enjoyable.
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